Parenting

Single parenting is when the primary responsibility of raising the child falls on one individual. There are many single parents for a variety of reasons. No matter the reason, society has come a long way in its views on single parents and the resources available to help single parents. There are so many classes, books, mentors, and thousands of blog posts out there to help you learn everything you need to know on the topic.

Finding a solid support system that can help navigate the days ahead is important for everyone, but especially for someone who will be primarily a single parent. No one is expected nor should do this alone. Even the strongest of women will experience a moment they will need to reach out for help.

As you make your birth plan, make a list of people, places and resources available to you as you embrace single parenting. If you do not know where to start, consider signing up for parenting classes at Hope Resource Center. Our dedicated staff can assist you and connect you with local resources to make the best birth plan for you and your child.

Co-parenting is when the responsibility of raising the child is shared between the biological mother and father. Whenever possible this is a wonderful option for the child even if the couple does not decide to stay together. The parenting plan will include a schedule that is detailed in writing and should also include child support commitments. It is best to have these documents legally binding.

If your partner is unsafe or unhealthy, then seek the help and assistance to ensure your health and safety. You may need to look towards parenting without them. However, if at all possible, including them in a healthy respectful way will be rewarding for the child as well as each parent. There are many resources, classes, blogs, and tips on how to successfully co-parent.

Blended families are very common today. This is when two individuals come together and one or both have children. Learning how to live together as one family unit can be a unique experience. The good news is the successful stories of blended families are plentiful! The resources to help both parents and the children navigate this successfully will be important.

Communicate with your partner about your child and their needs.

Communicate with your child the benefits of having “more people to love them” by adding additional members to the family.

Reinforce to the children that nothing changes in your love or attention for them.

Continue to invest into the biological parent child relationship so they don’t feel forgotten or overlooked.

Remember blended families offer an increase in the opportunity for love and security. They can be successfully done!

A nuclear family is when both the biological mother and father are living in the same house raising their children and doing life together. Traditionally they are married, but not always. A healthy nuclear family can create a stable home. It offers structure and helps children focus on education. This also leads to better economic stability for the family. This makes sense as there are two adults working together for a common goal with shared resources.

The best family for a child is the healthy family and it is possible for you to have a healthy family in all of the options mentioned.

Whatever your situation is, parenting and family styles are unique to each person. You will be able to find many resources as you embark on this adventure of parenting.